Men Are All The Same...

...Straight men, anyway. I mean, why is it that they find it so bloody impossible to talk to people about things?! Where the hell did this idea pop into existence that it's only women and gay men that talk about their feelings?! I mean, come on. If something's wrong, no one can help you if you don't tell anyone. Duh. And you clearly can't help yourself, or else it wouldn't be bothering you so much. Seriously.

My mate, who shall remain unnamed, has a boyfriend. She was out with him the other night, and phoned me crying - twice - within 20 minutes from the bathroom of the bar they were in, because she was confused and annoyed. She asked him if they could go out, he agreed. He goes out, they meet up with another friend. All seems okay. WRONG. As soon as the other friend arrives, it's "let's geek out and talk about WoW because [unnamed] knows fuck all about it and cannot join in the conversation!"

"Why did she not just remind them that they are not talking to her and they're ignoring her?" you may ask. Here's the thing. She did. Reaction: n/a.5 minutes later, I get a call from a bar bathroom from my friend.Another question you may ask would be, "Why doesn't she just ask him what's up?" Again. She has. His answer: Nothing is wrong.


I call bullshit.


The prick has the nerve to sit there and talk to his friend about gaming, which she doesn't do, and ALSO take the utter piss out of her to his mate, insinuating that she is a whore who only agreed to go out with him and not his other friend because he was a better kisser. In front of her.

Now. Maybe this could be sorted, if this boy actually had some balls and told her exactly what the problem was. But no. Nope, talking about feelings isn't manly enough for guys. They don't like talking about feelings, because they want to feel butch and tough. Not talk about "all that touchy feely crap". Even though, that "touchy feely crap" may actually save the relationship.
Here's the thing. Guys, you may think you're being 'tough' by not talking about your feelings or problems, but in reality?



You're all a bunch of pussies.
Done.

P.S. I'm so glad I got permission to re-post that. The short crappy one that insinuated I was angry without letting me write anything was making my blog look silly..